The Self-Centered Woman
A Practical Guide to Putting Yourself Back at the Center of Your Own Life
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If you're tired of being the strong, independent woman who handles everything herself but secretly feels lonely, resentful, and disconnected from who you are and what you want, The Self-Centered Woman is for you.
Inside, you'll discover a third way of living.
Not selfish.
Not self-abandoning.
Self-centered.
The woman who puts herself back at the center of her own life so she can finally create healthy love that leaves her feeling safe, seen, and supported.
Whether you're navigating dating, marriage, motherhood, adult children, divorce, friendships, or a season of personal change, you'll learn how to stop living in survival mode and start living as The Self-Centered Woman.
Enroll NowBefore we go any further,
let’s make sure we’re a good fit.
The Self-Centered Woman is for the woman who's ready to stop building her life around everyone else's needs or expectations and start building a life that honors her own.
This journey is for you if you...
- Are exhausted from being the one who keeps everything together.
- Feel lonely, even in relationships with people you love.
- Have spent so long being responsible, capable, and independent that you've lost touch with yourself.
- Aren't even sure who you are or what you truly want anymore.
- Struggle to say no or ask for what you need without feeling guilty.
- Keep attracting unavailable, low-effort, or emotionally immature partners and wonder why the same patterns keep repeating.
- Are navigating a divorce or major life transition and want to rebuild your life from a place of self-trust instead of survival.
- Are ready to stop living in survival mode and create healthy love with yourself first.
- If you found yourself nodding along...
You're in the right place.
Together, we'll help you become the woman who knows she belongs at the center of her own life—and from that place, creates relationships where she feels safe, seen, and supported.
By the end of The Self-Centered Woman, you'll...
Trust Yourself Again
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Replace self-doubt with self-trust and begin making decisions with kindness and confidence instead of guilt.
Break Free from Survival Mode
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Recognize the patterns that have kept you stuck and replace them with healthier ways of relating to yourself and others.
Create Healthy Love
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Learn to stop abandoning yourself and begin building relationships where you feel safe, seen, and supported.
Put Yourself Back at the Center of Your Own Life
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Stop living around everyone else's needs and start creating a life that reflects your own. Not selfish. Not selfless. Self-Centered. A woman who loves deeply and is loved deeply in return.
Become an Emotional Steward, Not A ManagerÂ
Learn how to navigate the heavy emotions of both yourself and others—not by pretending everything is okay or trying to fix everyone, but by meeting life with honesty, compassion, and courage. You'll begin seeing emotions not as problems to solve, but as powerful invitations for growth, healing, and deeper connection.
What Women Are Saying
"At 70 years old, this was the first process that actually moved from my head into my body and created real, lasting change."
— C.
"I spent years being everyone's emotional shock absorber, taking on things that were never mine to carry. This work taught me to take my cape off, recognize 'that's not mine to fix' in real time, and finally trust myself. It changed every relationship in my life."
— T.
"I used to believe mutual love just wasn't in the cards for me. Once I understood where that belief came from, everything shifted. I stopped settling for less, and now I see good men—and good options—everywhere."
— S.
"I finally realized my resentment wasn't proof my partner was failing me—it was proof I'd stopped taking care of myself. I stopped waiting for him to change and started changing what I would and wouldn't accept."
— A.
"I don't need to settle. ALMOST isn't enough anymore. This work taught me that having standards isn't about being difficult—it's about believing I'm worthy of soulmate-level love."
— K.
"I stopped making myself small. I started the business I'd been too scared to launch, sold out my first event, and stopped caring what people think. The biggest win wasn't being asked out twice in one week—it was refusing to shrink myself for anyone ever again."
— A.
What’s Inside The Self-Centered Woman
The Self-Centered Woman is an audio journey designed to fit into your real life.
Listen while you're driving, folding laundry, walking the dog, or enjoying a quiet moment before the day begins.
Think of each session as you and me slipping out to the back porch after everyone else has gone to bed for the kind of honest conversation that changes a woman's life.
Each session includes...
🧠Head — A fresh perspective that helps you understand yourself and your relationships in a whole new way.
❤️ Heart — Guided reflection questions that help you reconnect with yourself.
🙌 Hands — One simple practice to move this work from insight into everyday life.
✨ Soul — A permission slip to become The Self-Centered Woman, one small step at a time.
You'll also receive a beautifully designed workbook if you love a physical workbook, or you can keep everything right on your phone with prompts and practices included in each lesson.
Before you can create healthy love with anyone else, you'll learn to create it with yourself.
Together, we'll begin putting you back at the center of your own life as you...
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Discover your survival strategy and the gift hidden inside it.
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Learn what healthy love actually looks and feels like.
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Rebuild trust in yourself, your body, and your inner wisdom.
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Stop waiting for your life to begin and start choosing yourself today.
Continue Your Journey Inside The Self-Centered Sisterhood
The Self-Centered Woman is designed to stand beautifully on its own.
But if you're longing for deeper transformation, continued practice, and the support of women walking this path alongside you, I'd love to welcome you into The Self-Centered Sisterhood.
Because insight creates awareness.
Practice creates change.
And while self-abandonment often grows in isolation, healing happens in safe, honest community.
Inside The Self-Centered Sisterhood, you'll continue building the life you've begun here through live coaching, practical support, and meaningful relationships with women who are learning to put themselves back at the center of their own lives—together.
Here's What You'll Receive When You Enroll TodayÂ
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The Self-Centered Woman Audio Journey
Eight transformative audio sessions you can listen to anywhere, designed to help you put yourself back at the center of your own life—one conversation at a time.
The Self-Centered Woman Workbook
A beautifully designed workbook filled with reflection prompts, practical exercises, and permission slips to help you turn insight into lasting change.
My Simple Healthy Love Framework
The practical tools and emotional skills I use to help women stop living in survival mode and start creating healthy love with themselves and the people around them.
A Clear Path to Lasting Change
No fluff. No overwhelm. Just a simple, step-by-step process I use in my own life that helps you create meaningful change through small, consistent actions that fit your real life.
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That’s over $1,150 in Value
I’m ready to do this!
My 7-Day "Do the Work" Guarantee
I believe deeply in this work because I've lived it, and I've watched it change the lives of hundreds of women.
That's why I want you to experience it for yourself—completely risk-free.
You'll receive immediate access to the entire program.
If, within the first seven days, you've completed the first two sessions, spent time with the reflection prompts, practiced what I teach, and genuinely don't feel more hopeful, more clear, or more equipped to create healthy love, simply email me at [email protected]Â and I'll happily refund 100% of your investment.
The only thing I ask is that you do the work.
Because transformation doesn't happen by collecting more information. It happens one small choice, one new behavior, and one act of self-love at a time.
I can't wait to welcome you.
I've read the books and gone to therapy.
How is this different?
Most personal growth gives you more information.
The Self-Centered Woman helps you become a different woman.
After helping thousands of women (including myself) heal self-abandonment, I've learned something:
Lasting transformation doesn't happen because you finally understand yourself.
It happens when your mind, body, and nervous system gather enough evidence that it's safe to live differently.
That's why this journey isn't built around massive life overhauls or long complicated videos and lessons.
It's built around small, intentional practices that fit into your everyday life.
Each session includes a simple teaching, guided reflection, one practical action, and a permission slip—because lasting change isn't created through information.
It's created through repeated experiences.
You don't need to become a different woman overnight.
You simply need enough small moments that remind you who you've been all along.
My Philosphy
One thing you'll notice as we journey together is that I don't believe the path to healing is through de-centering men.
Because the truth is, as women, we don't just center our partners.
We center our children.
Our parents.
Our jobs.
Our friendships.
Our responsibilities.
Everyone else's needs slowly become the organizing principle of our lives, while we quietly disappear from the picture.
I believe the path to true healing is different.
It isn't about loving others less.
It isn't about putting yourself above everyone else.
It's about finally including yourself in the love and care you've spent a lifetime giving away.
This is what it means to become The Self-Centered Woman.
Not above others.
Not beneath them.
Beside them.
With yourself back at the center of your own life.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this for married women, single women, or divorced women?
What if I don't have much time?
Do I need to join The Self-Centered Sisterhood to get results?
Is this therapy?
Welcome Home
When I began healing my own self-abandonment, I thought I needed more discipline, more willpower, or one more breakthrough. I didn't have the words yet, the clarity. Just the calling that my life needed to be different. I couldn't go one more day experiencing it as it was.
What I actually needed was a new way of living.
Over the years, I've had the privilege of walking alongside thousands of women as they've learned to stop abandoning themselves and start creating healthy love. Along the way, I noticed something remarkable:
The biggest transformations didn't come from the biggest changes.
They came from the smallest, most consistent ones.
So I gathered the teachings, practices, and conversations that created the deepest shifts and brought them together inside The Self-Centered Woman.
This isn't everything I know.
It's the journey I believe will create the greatest transformation with the least overwhelm.
If you're ready to stop surviving...
To stop placing yourself at the bottom of your own list...
To become the woman who knows she belongs at the center of her own life...
I'd be honored to walk beside you.
Because when a woman stops abandoning herself, everything changes.
She changes.
Her relationships change.
Her family changes.
And the people who love her finally get to experience the real her—not the exhausted, over-functioning version she's spent years trying to be.
Welcome home.
With love,
Ada Gore
Let's Get Started