Soul Mate or Nothing- 6 week Group Coaching Experience

SOUL MATE OR NOTHING

Stop searching for "the one" and become the woman who no longer settles for almost-love.

A 6-week group coaching experience for women who are ready to stop dating from wounds, heal self-abandonment, and create the kind of love they actually desire.

For years I attracted emotionally unavailable men, inconsistent men, low-effort men, and relationships that left me feeling lonely, confused, and exhausted. I call them duds.

I kept asking:

"Why does this keep happening?" "Why can't I find a good man who will choose me?"

The answer surprised me.

The things that made me successful everywhere else in life were the very things sabotaging my love life.

I was independent.

Capable.

Responsible.

A fixer.

A problem solver.

I was used to carrying everything.

At work these traits earned me praise, money, and security.

In relationships they attracted men who wanted to be carried.

The more I over-functioned, the less space there was for a man to show up.

The more I controlled, the less opportunity there was for partnership.

The more I abandoned myself, the more I attracted relationships that reflected that abandonment back to me.

Everything changed when I stopped trying to find the right man and started understanding the patterns inside myself.

That journey eventually led me to my husband.

But something even more important happened first.

I fell in love with my own life.

The Year That Changed Everything

When I paused dating, I didn't know how long it would take.

I wasn't following a strategy.

I simply reached a point where I could feel in my bones:

"I can't keep doing this."

I was exhausted from searching.

Exhausted from hoping.

Exhausted from wondering where is he? 

Honestly, I didn't really like my life and I was tired of the constant drain of dating and hoping if I could just fall in love I would be happy.

I needed a new way. I went on a journey to find it.

Looking back, that year was one of the greatest gifts of my life.

I stopped treating my life as a waiting room for love.

I stopped believing my happiness would begin once I found love.

I stopped chasing.

I stopped auditioning.

I stopped trying to earn attention and approval from men who really weren't all that great.

And for the first time in a very long time, I started building a life I genuinely loved. I fell in love with ME.

The truth is that once you meet your soul mate, your life changes.

Your schedule changes.

Your priorities change.

Your relationships change.

Your home changes.

Everything changes.

This is your chance to truly love the last single season of your life.

Not rush through it.

Not survive it.

Not resent it.

Love it.

Why This Is Different

This is not therapy.

Therapy helps us understand our past.

This is not dating coaching.

Dating coaching focuses on external strategies and tactics.

Soul Mate or Nothing focuses on transformation from the inside out.

Inside this program, you'll learn:

• Why you keep attracting the same kinds of men

• How self-abandonment shows up in dating

• The subconscious beliefs that tie you to settling

• The hidden fears beneath people pleasing, over-giving, and over-functioning

• How to strengthen self-trust and discernment

• How to recognize red flags before you're emotionally attached

• How to become unavailable for confusion, inconsistency, and almost-love

• How to create pattern interrupts that permanently change your dating life

This isn't about becoming someone new.

It's about becoming unavailable for what no longer serves you.

The Sacred Pause

As part of this experience, all participants commit to a six-week pause from dating and sexual relationships.

Not as punishment.

Not as deprivation.

As devotion.

For six weeks, the energy you've been investing outward gets redirected inward.

Toward your healing.

Toward your growth.

Toward your life.

Toward yourself.

Because the relationship you've been searching for begins with the relationship you have with you.

What to Expect

The Group Experience | 6 Weeks

This is not a self-paced course.

It is not a collection of videos you'll purchase with the best intentions and never finish.

And it is not information to consume on your own.

Soul Mate or Nothing is a guided group coaching experience designed to help you actually shift the patterns that have kept you stuck in painful, confusing, or unfulfilling relationship dynamics.

Over the course of six weeks, we will work together to:

• Develop deep awareness around your romantic patterns

• Heal self-abandonment at the root

• Strengthen your standards, boundaries, and discernment

• Recognize red flags earlier

• Stop settling for inconsistency, confusion, and emotional unavailability

• Become available for real, mutual love

• Learn to trust yourself again

Each week, you'll have approximately 60–90 minutes of material and integration work, which you can move through at your own pace.

This may include:

• Recorded teachings

• Guided visualizations

• Reflective writing exercises

• Movie analysis

• My Dating Guide

• My ebook on healing self-abandonment

The materials support the process.

The transformation happens through your willingness to apply what you're learning and bring it into the group space.

Weekly Live Calls

The heartbeat of this experience is our live calls.

Tuesdays at 5:00 PM MDT

Teaching + Live Coaching (1 hour)

These calls include teaching, coaching, and practical application.

All Tuesday calls are recorded and available for replay.

Dates:
June 9, June 16, June 23, July 7, July 14, July 21

(No call June 30)

Saturdays at 10:00 AM MDT

Integration + Group Processing (1 hour)

This is where the deeper work happens.

These calls are designed to help you integrate what you're learning, process what's arising in real time, and receive support from women walking a similar path.

While recordings will be available, these calls are best experienced live whenever possible.

Dates:
June 13, June 20, June 27, July 11, July 18, July 25

(No call July 4)

Why Group Coaching?

One of the most healing parts of this experience is realizing you are not the only one.

The only woman who keeps attracting emotionally unavailable men.

The only woman who second-guesses herself.

The only woman who keeps ending up in the same painful relationship dynamic.

Inside this container you'll be witnessed, supported, challenged, and encouraged by women who understand exactly what you're going through.

You'll receive coaching.

You'll share breakthroughs.

You'll practice new ways of seeing, choosing, and relating.

And you'll discover that healing happens much faster when we stop doing it alone.

Imagine Six Weeks From Now...

Imagine no longer feeling obsessed with whether he texts.

Imagine trusting yourself.

Imagine recognizing red flags immediately and walking away with confidence.

Imagine no longer chasing potential.

Imagine feeling calm instead of confused.

Imagine creating a life so rich and meaningful that love becomes an addition to your happiness instead of the source of it.

That's the journey.

And if the right man enters your life afterward?

Beautiful.

But the true purpose of this work is something even deeper:

To become the woman who chooses herself first.

Every single time.

Ready? I'll see you inside.

Love,

Ada